Recently, a father had requested Utusan Malaysia to find his son, Ariff Alfian Rosli he had lost contact for the last three years.
His son is a medical student in Dublin, Ireland.
The Royal Malaysian Navy (TLDM) retired officer who had served for 31 years, Rosli Haron, 56, had almost given up in the search for his second son from all his four children after trying all sorts of things including lodging reports to the police, Wisma Putra, Malaysian Embassy in Ireland and Ireland Embassy here.
Concerned with the matter, the Chairman of UMNO Youth Bureau of Community Complaints, Datuk Muhd. Khairun Aseh had promised that they will take off to United Kingdom (UK) this December 23 to meet Foreign UMNO Club in UK and Ireland to look for Ariff Alfian.
Muhd. Khairun said, as for now, his side are still collecting a few information regarding Ariff Alfian so that the search could be done.
But everything was later confirmed that Ariff Alfian is safe there.
The Malaysian Embassy in Ireland, Datuk Ramli Naam said that his side had known that Ariff Alfian has been in the country since he started studying.
However, he said, the embassy and Wisma Putra cannot reveal any further information regarding the student who was formerly sponsored by Petronas as it is part of the Dublin Personal Data Protection Act.
But what is more surprising is that the student was said to have been married with a man named Jonathan there.
A few of his wedding pictures with the foreign man were then spread in a website, bigayweddingproject.com.
What is more surprising is that the wedding was believed to have been performed in a church where he was in a black baju melayu, complete with samping and a golden tanjak.
His partner who maybe in his late 30s was in a black suit.
The website that was believed to be a huge support for gay weddings had uploaded 15 pictures as the ceremony went along.
Few of the pictures include the image where the couple took a group picture as they celebrate the marriage.
There were also two other picture of the foreign man getting ready before the marriage ceremony began.
According to the statement that was mentioned along with the pictures that was believed to be uploaded on September 20, the couple was their first client for the website.
Writer just do not know how to respond with this.
In this matter, Ariff Alfian’s family is the one who are under huge pressure.
As the their son is enjoying his moment with a man, the parents may be crying now.
Why wouldn’t they cry? They had taught him just about everything that he even managed to study abroad has now humiliate them.
In this matter, writer urge that we should not put the blame on the parents…no parents in this world ever want their child to be like this.
Writer would not know what to do being in his parents’ shoe as this is just something demeaning not just to our religion, but also to our race and nation.
This is how it is if someone became too liberal, everything is okay to them as long as it supports freedom and human rights.
Writer did came across a statement made by lawyer, Zainul Rijal Abu Bakar.
He said that human rights should not contradict with the main principal in the Constitution.
This right is somehow seen to legalizing just about anything so that it could fulfill their lust.
Maybe today they want the rights for homosexuals.
Maybe in the future, they would want to have the rights for incest or even having sex with animals.
That is why rights should be respected and no one can stop it.
This approach seemed wrong with the main principe of the Federal Constitution and it goes against Islam.
But this group should not be harassed. Instead, we should guide them back to the reality.
By: SYAHRIL A. KADIR





